This is a very detailed and comprehensive discussion of alternatives.
I hope it’s useful to somebody.
This covers quite closely the thinking I’ve been doing on this, and organizes it ten times better. I’m not sure there’s anything else I can say that she hasn’t.
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excellent reading
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Hmm. I thought is was rehash and a waste of time. Oh well. n/t
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A well-written article
- "acquiesce" is probably the word you're looking for
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*sigh*
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"Accept and allow (behavior that is considered morally wrong or offensive) to continue.Approve or sanction (something), esp. with reluctance."
Yeah, "condone" ...
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"Accept," "allow" and "sanction" are not synonyms.
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I didn't make that definition up, TB
 
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I didn't make that definition up, TB
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seeking vs grasping
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We are saying that the mentality that makes decisions based on the statement "Something must be done"...
 
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"Accept," "allow" and "sanction" are not synonyms.
- Welcome to my world.
 
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"Accept and allow (behavior that is considered morally wrong or offensive) to continue.Approve or sanction (something), esp. with reluctance."
Yeah, "condone" ...
 
 
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Hmm. I thought is was rehash and a waste of time. Oh well. n/t